Hmmmm…. I got a thought today if Actions really speak louder than Words?….
Some of my friends say yes it’s true and it has a big impact in a certain relationship. Sabagay hndi mo ren nmn masasabe if sincere ang isang tao if hindi mo nakikita sa galaw niya e diba. But what if he/she says all these sweet stuff and promises to you pero after a year or two wala namang ginawa. I mean little things that simply mean big.
Does it also say na pag nagsabi ka ng isang bagay sa isang tao and your actions are way different from the words u’ve said, does that mean it’s not true? Or baka nakalimutan niya lang na gawin o iparamdam un? Pwede rin na pag gumawa nmn sila ng actions to make you feel loved but they don’t say it out loud, some people think na sapilitan lang. For the sake of the girlfriend and boyfriend responsibilities.
I don’t know actually… Hahahaha! Well for me, based from my past relationships, it doesn’t matter whether you say it or do it once as long as your consistent. I mean okay lang nmn if you say sweet stuff that’s part of a relationship for your partner to feel that you are aware that he/she is special to you. Same as doing it, syempre mas makakadagdag ng expression if you do it. Like cooking for her/him, buying gifts, or just being at home, cuddle and talk.
For me kasi di nmn ako choosy to whether you say it everyday or do something for me everyday. I mean I’m not requiring it pero diba automatic na un for a guy/girl to think of something to make the other partner feel special. It’s not bad to say it everyday at least you always remind him/her of your feelings. Pag actions naman andaming pedeng gawin para maparamdam mo ung nrramdaman mo. From simple things to really big surprises.
Balanse lang dapat sguro. I guess it’s nice to hear words from the heart but it’s nicer to feel it by actions. And that’s how it becomes special. Kumbaga may thrill hahaha. So ayun lang. It doesn’t have to be big…. Think of something he/she likes. Compose a love letter or a long text saying how happy you are. Maraming maliliit at simpleng bagay na pwedeng kang sabihin at gawin. Just make sure it’s balanced and consistent. Mejo mahirap pag malabo, mahirap kumapa sa isang kwartong madilim. Hehehehhe.
Well, hello. Yun lang! Bow! ‘Til next time ☺